How to Be a Husband
I was husbanding—providing for my household by physically taking care of my land and livestock. And they were providing for me.
husband.
How will I live alone?
broken family
wifewoman
To cultivate
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I am here
Author of Tell Me Everything You Don't Remember (Ecco/Harper Collins). Her short fiction and essays have appeared in ZYZZYVA, Guernica, The Rumpus, The New York Times, and BuzzFeed, among other publications. Her novel is forthcoming from Ecco / Harper Collins. Beekeeper. She/her.
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